Long ago there was a debate: To what extent were colleges in a parental role
vis a vis their students? Seems to me that pretty much got settled. Grades are no longer sent to parents, but not students. (Now it's the reverse.) Smoking is allowed. Drinking is allowed. Cutting classes is allowed. Students are no longer required to live on campus, nor monitored for how late they stay out at night.
Students are considered adults, responsible for their own behavior.
But here we are again: Employers
in loco parentis! Employers, indeed, claiming to take over a religious role for employees, claiming...
do you believe it? ... to take over the role of
conscience for their employees.
All because
some employers cannot abide that employees exercise their
own consciences. Exercise responsibility for their own
private lives. In one area
only:
contraception. (Which means
controlling women's behavior, mind you. For I've heard no uproar over limiting drugs like
Viagra.)
Now, colleges, for example, still consider themselves responsible for the
safety of students. They can't just leave patches of ice in the parking lots. They can't just let gun-toting murderers run rampant on campus. So, with the exception of some very conservative religious institutions which require students to agree to adhere to a strict code of conduct, most colleges today are able to draw lines between the
public and the
private. (They provide safety within the college environment. And they allow wide latitude with regard to student's private lives, so long as their behavior does not endanger the safety of others.)
But some employers, claiming consciences
which speak for all, claiming a kind of
infallibility, based (it would appear) on a claim to
extreme holiness - now assert a
right to a
parental role with regard to their employees.
With regard to their female employees. With regard to their family planning or their medical care. In effect they want to
punish women for private decisions they make with their doctor, decisions which
have nothing to do with the workplace.
The mind reels!
It seems to me that today the root of so many problems in our society relates to a lack of logic, bordering on insanity.
Think about it. How of many of our problems relate to a desire (by some) to control the private lives of others? Or a desire to punish others for private behavior? Or a desire to relieve themselves of any responsibility for the welfare of others?
Social Security,
Medicare,
Medicaid, unemployment insurance, disability, food stamps - no one forces us to use them. But they certainly should be
available for those of us who need them or who qualify for them. As should
contraception - as a
covered medical option. With fairness and equity for all.
We don't exempt
some employers from paying taxes to social welfare programs. We don't exempt
some from laws requiring worker safety, hours worked, or the minimum wage. So why is medical care
different?
So why meddle in the medical?
Employers, is it so difficult for the professedly holy among you to understand? Is it so difficult to accept that
free will is a gift from God?
Honestly, I'm tired of the insanity!
[Cross-posted here.]